I can so identify.
The last three years of experiencing various lifestyles, attitudes and mindsets have framed my image of the perfect fit, not perfect man, for me. My five-year isolation seemed like a good idea at the time, but experience has taught emotionally checking out to avoid tattoos on my heart stunts personal development. Of course, time away is necessary for healing because when not a priority, the past is transported into the future. I’ve multi-tasked, hosting several failed relationships at one time and dragging them into a fresh set of circumstances. Now I understand every relationship that didn’t advance was needed to define what would. Life provides valuable feedback and taking the message from the mess and moving on gracefully (without the scar tissue) is a Superpower acquired. I’ve decided dating a man that does not love God is no longer a viable option for me. Not only must he love God, he…
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